Archive | July 2016

A Spell To Make Someone Love You How To Turn Hate Into Love

Disagreement and misunderstanding are the result of a faulty communication. The repeated incidence may lead people to hate you or vice versa. Sometimes you decide to end all contact with each other. In case of friends or colleagues, it may not affect you. But what about someone you love? It will definitely do.

Some just need time to forget while others never do. Gifts, imploration and love letters usually will not make a difference. How to get rid of this hate against you from your loved one’s mind and heart? Could a spell to make someone love you turn things around?

Dissolve Hate

Spells have been used to dissolve negativity from a home or a person’s life since a long time ago. The same can be done with any hate your loved one feels against you. Spells can also address resentment on your side. This may get you in talking terms again. However, if you want to be more than friends, you will have to make her love you.

Create Unconditional Love

A spell to make someone love you exists in different varieties. My favorite consists on bringing forth deep emotions for you that are being suppressed by your loved one and empowering them. These are her true feelings for you.

Making your loved one imagine himself in romantic scenarios with you also make him fall in love with you deeply. In fact, that is how most of us fall in love, in our mind. According to psychologists, this is unable to recognize what’s real or not. In other words, you will get the same feelings with a kiss of your loved one than if you just imagine it.

Increase Communication

If a faulty communication brought your loved one to hate you, you can improve it with a spell. This will help you understand each other better and resolve your problems before they impact your relationship. You do not want to return to a relationship only to find yourself in daily arguments and other annoyances as before.

Other Causes of Hate

Hopefully, you have a good idea of what caused your loved one to hate you. Just to refresh your memory, it may be

– Gossip among friends

– Family opposition

– Infidelity

Preferably, a spell should address these other causes. Sometimes you just need to get away from bad companies.

Love, Friendships and Business Relationships

A spell to make someone love you can make your relationship even better than before, if you follow the advice above. It does not matter whether your loved one hates you since long ago or just recently. Spells can also make friendships and business relationships great by turning hate into unconditional affection.

 

This entry was posted on July 25, 2016.

Does She Really Love Me

Feelings are hard to decipher especially when it involves women. Sometimes, they appear interested but then you just realized that it’s just a friendly gesture. If you are really into the lady and you’ve been dating for quite some time now, it is only natural that you search for any evidence of her love for you. Of course, nobody wants to be misled when you have already invested too many emotions.

So how do you know if her affection towards you is truly sincere? You will sense it. Females are very expressive of what they feel. But this gets confusing when she also starts treating other guys in the same manner.

Here are some behaviors that will give you hints of what she feels.

She makes time.

Ladies are very particular with their schedule. But when you invite her for an unexpected Friday dinner, she will make it a point to show up. You are always a part of her plan. She doesn’t consider you as an option, you are a choice.

She’s comfortable around you.

A girl who loves you will show you her true self, with no makeup on and tangled hair. She loves you enough that she lets you in her personal space. Every chance she gets, she wants to get closer to you and wants you to do the same.

She really looks at you. Because she’s comfortable with you, she makes sure that she is looking at you straight in the eye. The way she stares at you would seem like she is peeking into your soul. She also listens attentively to what you are going to say. When you tell her something, you will see her listening earnestly. In return, you feel confident telling her anything because you know she will understand.

She trusts you with her deepest, darkest secrets.

She shares her most kept secrets with you. They are the things that she doesn’t just tell anyone, even her friends. She also asks advice from you regarding family and personal problems. She highly respects your opinion on world issues. When she has won an award or got something she extremely wanted, you are the first person she spills it to. You communicate openly with each other, no holds barred.

She wants the best for you.

She tends to act like a mother and tells you what to do. She tries to talk you out of your bad habits. If your girl doesn’t want you to involve yourself with harmful schemes, she absolutely cares for you. If that still isn’t love, then I don’t know what else you can call it.

 

This entry was posted on July 19, 2016.

Don’t Fall in Love Too Fast How to Apply the Brakes Without Derailing Your Relationship

There is nothing wrong with falling in love quickly, really. You get to taste the feeling right when it arrived and for a moment, you are on cloud nine. The problem with this, however, is, usually, it can only last for a moment. Then after that moment of bliss comes sweeping pain, despair, depression, and all other emotions that could be fatal.

This may not be true to all, but this is what happens most of the time. Two people, swept by passion (prematurely), will realize they can no longer handle the roller-coaster flow of emotions in a relationship. They will then decide to abandon what they thought to be “true love” simply because “it’s not working anymore”. Sad, I know. But, you know what’s worse? It’s too easy to fall in love, but it’s too hard to move on.

So, would you still like to fall in love too fast? No, of course not. You need to be extra vigilant about your feelings and make sure you won’t fall into the trap of quick commitments and quick breakups. If you truly want a lasting relationship, learn to apply the brakes where necessary. Learn to halt your heart, and activate your head. Here’s how:

  • Know the qualities you want in a partner

Before opening yourself up to a relationship, make sure you already know the qualities of the person that you want to be with. Be clear about what you want so you won’t fall for anything less than you deserve. Be specific about the character, the principles, the beliefs, the interests, and the overall appearance of the person. It is true that you can never find everything you’re looking for out of a single wo/man, but having a list will keep you guided on who to choose or not. It will also keep you from getting strayed on the sudden outburst of emotion when a total heartthrob asks you for a date.

  • Get to know the person well

Some people have multiple personalities, and sometimes, it’s hard to decipher the true character from the pretenses. It is absolutely important to take ample time in knowing the person better before jumping into whatever conclusion. It takes time to know a person and build confidence and trust. Don’t be too picky, but don’t be too easy either. If you are looking for someone you can keep forever, be very mindful and observant on the person’s behavior and words. Talk to him or her as often as you can so you will know his thoughts, then you can have a glimpse into his very soul.

  • Affirm the genuineness of the person’s affection towards you

Anyone can say they love you, but there’s hardly one who can prove it. This is the hardest part, but the most important of all. Choosing someone who truly loves you is essential if you don’t want to spend a lot of time getting jealous with some trifler. Show everything bad and ugly about you, and see whether s/he stays. But don’t take it to exaggeration. Show how horrid you can get but make sure to keep it real. Someone who stays after seeing your worst is truly a keeper.

Nothing that is taken in haste ever lasted. Everything pure and durable takes a long, rigorous process. Even diamonds take billion of years to form under high temperature and pressure. So, don’t fall in love too fast if you want a relationship that can stand the test of time.

 

This entry was posted on July 10, 2016.

Is Your Love Truly Love

Most people think they know what love is. After all, have not we all been in love before? However, I am here to argue that most people do not truly know what love is, even though they frequently use the word “love” in their conversations. In fact, most people use this word much too frequently and too freely without truly knowing what it is.

If you say that you love someone, and you feel sad, miserable, empty or lonely without him or her, then you are not truly loving the person. What you love is the fact that he or she can fulfil your needs for safety or significance.

Perhaps having this person in your life makes you feel safe or protected. Or perhaps having this person makes you feel safer than facing up to the fearful unknown. Many of those in abusive relationships stay stuck in their relationships because of this feeling of relative safety of the known abuses over the perceived fear of the unknown.

Another reason we say we love someone is because that person fulfil our need to be significant, to be useful, to be needed, or to be of relevance in this life. This gives our life a certain purpose, as if our life is not wasted otherwise. Having someone who love us boosts our self esteem, self worth and give us a sense of belonging and acceptance.

This kind of love leads to an additional need. We need that the person we love behave and respond to us in a certain way that fulfil our own needs. If not, then conflicts arise in the relationship. So our love is conditional.

This is what most people called “love” but it is truly only a selfish need for love. This kind of love fulfils Abraham Maslow’s first four levels of human needs, that is physiological need, need for safety, need for belonging, and need for self esteem. True love is only possible when we have worked through our own inner issues and understand the true cause of our deeper fears and needs for safety and significance.

True love, in the spiritual sense, is unconditional. By this, we mean that true love does not have any personal needs to be fulfilled. True love is simply giving and totally accepting of who or what that person is, without expecting anything in return from him or her. True love is happy and contented with what is, right here and now.

Every relationship we are in offers us an opportunity to face up to our deepest fears. When we examine our own relationships, and analyse the real motivations for our behaviour, it might lead us to the realisation that the choices we make in our relationships are often intimately related to our own fears.

When the decisions we made are motivated by fears, the consequences are almost always less than desired. On the other hand, when we make choices based on true unconditional love, the outcomes are certainly going to be much more to what we want or need.

Lastly, when we have truly found unconditional love, we will realise that it was never to be found outside of ourselves, for true love is our very essence. Thus, it can only be found within. Once found, peace quickly follows.

 

This entry was posted on July 3, 2016.