Archive | June 2016

The Impervious, Holy, Gracious Nature of Love

Woken with thoughts I knew not where from, I decided to rise, to write them down, to endeavour to make sense of them. Here they are:

LOVE ENMESHED IN TRUTH AS IT BECOMES ITS OWN FORA OF WISDOM

Love argues a debate of reason without resorting to sarcasm, censure or name-calling, remaining ever kind and true to all sides of the debate.

And so such a thing as love is wisdom, choosing words and manner, not of decisive victory, but of truth each step of the discussion.

Loves argues a slow course, assigning its way to integrity, valuing unity of spirit, compelled by a vision of victory in the oneness of humanity. All winning or nobody winning. Nobody losing or all losing.

Love therefore has the final victory, because it thought not of victory, but because it valued truth. It loved the idea that God alone is right, that His ways alone are just, and that fairness is ever the imperative of the moment.

And truth never advances without love by its side, because that in itself would constitute a lie. Love cannot lie. It will not compromise truth. It stands integrally with the truth, real for the moment, every moment, at all times, eternally.

Love is its own wisdom; a wisdom of integrity, and the integrity of wisdom.

Trustworthy and true, love is found in victory, where there is nobody defeated but the lies propagated by the evil one.

Love’s purpose is wisdom, of integrity, of truth. Love is impervious to crassness, holy beyond the trappings of vice, gracious ever in the nature of itself.

 

This entry was posted on June 24, 2016.

How To Manifest The Right Relationship

Everyone wants a relationship; a partner in crime so to speak but past issues, fear, commitment issues among other wrong ideas block you. You search and search yet to no avail you meet no one that seems right for you. Maybe you see other friends in relationships and often wonder what you might be doing wrong? If this is you, then please read on.

Manifesting the right relationship starts with you; your thoughts are so powerful they create your outcome. First and foremost all society rules need tossing out with the trash. Did you ever wonder who made these rules? Does it matter to you to follow them? Has your life been blissful yet? Most likely your answer is a big fat No!

Do you need a relationship manual? Not really. All you need is very simple actually. The recipe for manifesting the best relationship is to love yourself unconditionally first. Release all past issues and traumas by forgiving everybody, letting go of blame, and realizing that you created it in the first place. Be responsible for yourself. The next ingredient is patience; as healing yourself takes time. The last ingredient is following your own heart by letting it be your only guide and then trusting what you receive. Mix these together, in this order, and you will manifest your true love.

You might be wondering who am I and how do I know? I am speaking from my experience of which I will share with you. Life is truly heavenly and magical if you allow it to be.

My life has always been about relationships. Ever since I started school I have been in one. My first relationship was when I was in the first grade! I had a boyfriend for three years. Thereafter I had one relationship after another until I married. After my divorce I had another bunch of relationships one after another. Summing this up, I have had three marriages and continuous relationships until my third divorce. That was when my guides said, “OK, Maxine, time to analyze and heel yourself first. Ever since 2008, I have not had any relationship until now; the only one meant for me.

Relationships are truly a mirror reflecting you! For instance, I had three marriages with three completely different men! My first husband was 2 years older than me and born in Germany. My second husband was 9 months younger than me, a surfer, outdoorsman, and born in Los Angeles. My third husband was black, from North Carolina, and 24 years younger than myself. Even though they were all completely different, I was the same. My challenge with each of them never changed because I didn’t change. If you want to change your outcomes, you must change yourself first because, I repeat, you attract yourself to you! All of them disrespected me because I disrespected myself! All of them lied to me because I was never honest with myself. Are you getting the idea? In between all these marriages I seriously thought I was different but after a while it was obvious that something deeply hidden inside of me still needed healing. I don’t care how many relationship books you read, or what you think is true, I am here to enlighten you that you are your own creator and everything that happens to you comes from you.

I am an extremely analytical person which has helped me understand these truths. I practiced my new thoughts while doing internet dating and saw instant results. For example, I truly felt that most men on internet sites were dishonest and only looking for sex. The outcome of that thought was I kept attracting men just like that. We all attract what we believe, no matter what that might be, which proves to us that we are correct in our thinking. When I changed that thought to a positive one, I started attracting respectful men. All the time I was working and healing myself I noticed that all the men I liked were unavailable. When you keep attracting unavailable men/women then the universe is telling you that you are not ready for any committed relationship.

Loving myself unconditionally was a process. There is so much to overcome to make this happen as we have been kept in fear with no understanding of how our universe truly works. We are taught to look up to other people, to envy others, believing we are not pretty enough, young enough, thin enough,and/or worry about other’s opinions. Remember this important fact; when others judge you, they truly are judging themselves. We are taught to care for others more than ourselves. That is so untrue and so many people think they love themselves unconditionally yet continue to put others before themselves. Why? Because you have learned that is being selfish! Remember I will repeat this many times, everyone is a mirror reflection of you. When you love yourself unconditionally in every single way, then you can ONLY attract people who love you unconditionally. There is NO WAY out of this rule. This rule extends to all relationships; friends, co-workers, boyfriends, girlfriends, sisters, brothers, family, etc.

After 8 years of dating, learning, growing, and practicing this new me, I started to notice that everyone I attracted was loving, kind, considerate, and had great relationship potential yet, they were not completely compatible to me. Instead of looking at this as a negative, I saw this as a positive. It was a sign my guides were sending me that the right man would soon arrive. I am a person who is not only psychic but also follow my guidance 100%. We all have guides who speak to us in many ways. My guides were showing me that my real twin flame was close by. I will admit that there were times I felt it would never happen. As soon as my thoughts went down that road, I quickly released them and replaced them with positive affirmations.

6 months ago I was given a complete description of the man I would meet; my true last relationship. At that time I was living in another state. I moved, settled in, and got the intuitive message to go back on a particular dating site. Being completely surprised as I had sworn off all dating sites, yet they insisted. One magical day, my twin, who also was a member on that site, was given the intuitive feeling to go on this site now! He had not visited that site for four months. At that same time he was given the message, I happened to be available to chat. He sent me a message and the rest is history! Now I truly know why no other relationship was right for me. Truth be told, I had to heal myself and so did he. I have never met anyone who was so perfect for me in every way! He is more than a soul mate; he is my twin flame. A twin flame is the other half of yourself who is created the same time you were. Whatever your true heart desires, what you have wanted all your life, your dreams, is your twin flame.

What is the moral of this story? That everything happens for a reason. To always be positive about all occurrences. To love yourself unconditionally first. Must be patient and know that timing is everything. Most importantly to also trust what you receive with no questions asked and release all worries because when the time is right, magic happens.

 

This entry was posted on June 18, 2016.

How to Be So Happy in Love

There is no perfect recipe for love. You got to discover the exact blend to get the right taste. The thing is, if you are only patient and persistent enough, your deep emotion for someone will last for eternity. Like a beautiful flower, love is a feeling that should be cultivated in order to grow stronger.

Love is not all about happiness.

It’s a road full of twists and turns and if you’re lucky enough, you might find the right person that will make you enjoy the bumpy ride. Whenever you are with that person, they will leave a mark in your life that will forever be tagged as one of your happiest moments. But what happens if they decide to walk out of your life? A part of you will be lost and it will take some time for you to recover.

So you see, in love, there are no guarantees. You take risks and invest too much emotion with only a feeling to hold on to. When you fall in love, make the most out of each moment and choose happiness through the following tips.

Be who you are

Once you found the one you are willing to spend the rest of your life with, show him the real you. The person should love you for who you truly are and not for whom you pretend to be. You don’t need to be desperate and become another person just for the other to love you. You just have to wait for the “right one” to come, the one who’ll accept and love the real you.

Be honest

A love built on trust is stronger. As long as you are honest with each other, you can withstand whatever trials. You can never go wrong with the truth. Any relationship without trust is bound to fall apart. For how can you entrust your heart to a person who is deceitful in the first place? Just by knowing that the other is loyal to you will make you sleep better in the morning.

Start with trust and end with trust.

Spend time

Cultivate and allow your feelings for each other to prosper. Spend quality time and have a date every now and then. It is not all the time that absence makes the heart grow fonder, sometimes, it makes the love weaker. Time is everything.

Listen to understand

When there are fights, let go of your pride. The only way to counter the flame is through water. Be the first one to lower your ego. Stay calm then start listening. Anger stems from somewhere and you have to truly pay attention in order to realize the problem. In this way, you can easily resolve any issues without hurting anyone’s feelings.

There is no guarantee as to where your love for each other will take you. In order to be so happy in love, you just got to live each day and not take each other for granted. Fuel the spark in your relationship by sending your loved one a lovely bouquet of flowers from florist Sydney to relive your sweet moments.

 

This entry was posted on June 6, 2016.

How To Make Him Love You

Believe it or not, there really is a formula to make a man love you.

There are reasons you fall for certain people, and once you understand the rules of attraction, you’ll be the master of making guys fall for you.

If you’ve fallen for a man that you’d like to feel the same way about you, there are things you can do to increase his affection for you. Just keep in mind that he must have some interest in you already for these strategies to work.

Smile well and often:

It makes you look approachable, and it might actually make you happier. Find something to smile about. Think of a happy moment or amusing joke to spark a smile.

If you’ve made eye contact with the man you love, smile at him slowly, letting it spread over your face.

Be yourself:

If you’re fake, it doesn’t matter if you get a guy to fall in love with you, because he won’t really be in love with the real you.

Listen:

Guys love to talk about themselves, and they think a girl who actively listens to them is so charming.

Listen more than I talk when I was trying to attract a guy.

Have a great attitude:

No one likes to hang out with a pessimistic, negative person.

So, always try to look on the bright side of life.

Be different:

You don’t want him to think that you’re just like all the other girls out there.

So, don’t talk about all those same old topics, like school gossip.

Give him freedom:

Give him his freedom, and that will send him right back for more.

Let your guy know that you value and respect his time with his friends, playing sports, or whatever it is he does in his spare time.

Be trustworthy:

Guys love someone they can trust. Don’t tell your girls every little bit of your private conversations, and your guy will trust and respect you much more.

Don’t mess him around:

Men don’t like to be messed around. Don’t go cold for no reason and don’t try to test a man’s commitment.

Dress attractively:

Men are visual, and women know this better than anything else. Win the attention of other men in the room, and the man you like will do anything to get more attention from you. And of course, he’ll realize how lucky he is to be with you.

These tips on how to make him love you can definitely help you work your magic and make the guy you like fall for you, just as long as you read the signs and make the right move.

 

This entry was posted on June 4, 2016.