This life goes on. We meet people and we befriend them on business terms, casual or in a deep relationship. We know folks cannot stay in our lives forever unless they are family. One day they have to leave. Then why is it that we cannot digest their separation? Why is it that we feel so bad and distressed when they look happy in their company and we feel something is not right. This is the feeling of overbearing or possession. It’s our basic instinct since ancient times. The medieval kings and queens had possession for jewels, richness, and kingdom. Some had addiction for protecting their beauty family or relations. They did everything in their power to claim what they loved, but in the end, it fades off. This is what I want to stress here. People and things do not stay or live with you forever. They will have to leave someday whether you want. Even your soul leaves you when you are old and fragile. These are just material aspects then why to fret to over them and lose our lives just like that.
Some people are the greatest consumers and sound like control freaks. They think they can have anything or anyone in the world, which is pure hallucination. Psychologists term this as a kind of disorder and get a treated for that. It works ultimately if the patient lives in a recouping environment and gets a thorough understanding of what life is. We ought to let go of the things we cannot control. Truth is having everything in your life would not make you happy but anxious. The more you get the more you will fret about its protection and safety.
Where do I keep this gold, this money, and these jewels? How do I protect my man my girl, my friend from that good for nothing-loud mouth? This is mine, she/he dare not touch it, or I will slay him. My dear friends this does not make sense. What was yours will remain yours if it is ought to. There is no pointing in forcing someone to be with you or you both will suffer a lot. Manipulations will only lead to sadness and loss. Love is not tagged with a punch line of “BEING MINE” or “PRIVATE PROPERTY”. Some view its oneness in a single person while some make it divine. They respect and love everyone equally and categorically. Nothing is less or nothing is more for them. Such folks tend to live longer and without any bondage of affection.
I am not taking any sides. OK? There are no sides. You can be in love like Christian and Anastasia or you can take a step further to turn into a divine providence. It is your choice in the end. Just be happy in whatever you choose and let others be happy with you. Life is too short to give pains to people so whatever is left please keep it as good and do not hurt others.
So long my friends. See you soon.
Having everything in life may make you happy but it wont give you the real satisfaction. We are born because of God’s order and our aim is to spread happiness around us but it cannot be done unless we stop to consume or possess things for our selfish motives.